Kuyabonakala ukuba intombazana iyakuthanda ukukhwela idick enkulu yesithandwa sayo, ibone indlela ehamba ngayo, kwaye nangona kunjalo, iyayinyathela, hayi kuyo, nangona yenza umehluko, kuba utshintsho lweendawo luyakwenza. Ungatshintshi isamba, ngakumbi kumbandela onje. Ngokucacileyo bangene eluzukweni, kwaye bobabini bafumana ulonwabo olungeyonyani, kubonakala kum, kwaye ndicinga ukuba ukuphindaphinda akukude.
Kakuhle ukugweba inkangeleko yakhe, kunye nendlela ngobuchule wandlala imilenze yakhe kunokugqitywa ukuba hayi kuphela temperamental, yena ngoko ke ulungile, oku yinyaniso kubonakala umntu, ndicinga ukuba ukholisiwe.